Woman, what do they need?

 

“About 1 year ago, the first time I stepped into Saxa, was also the first time I sat with boss and the male colleagues, to promise a strange thing. It was gallant. Leading car, opening the door, bringing things, carrying water bottle… that were what our man had to do.

My boss said, the more a man gallant, the more attractive he is.

Yeah, boss was reasonable. Woman, they always liked the feeling of being cared and pampered.

So that, I had practiced to be gallant, and use it like a tool to ingratiate, no more meaning.

Up to a day, I dropped a pen to the ground. I bent down and found that under every woman feet, was a high heel.

I wonder why. Our men sometime wanted to look luxury before people, usually wore padded heel shoes. It was about 5cm but we felt so tired when we came home. But woman, with a 7, 8cm high and small heel shoe, might feel very unsteady.

Suddenly, I thought about the gallant. I'd said that gallant to people was to gain sympathizes. But, that's not true. I should gallant as thorough, rather than showing.

The women's high shoes, it would be difficult to walk, and even harder to lead one heavy vehicle.

Decent dress of women would not aesthetic at all if it was tossed because of lifting.

And the queue waiting times, women might be rushing because she had not prepared family meals yet....

And also other concerns of women that sometimes I can not understand. I just know that I just spent a little extra effort to lead the car, carry items; spend a little time to give sit for them. A little thing sometimes can help women very very much.

Now I realize why the gallant men is more attractive man. As for women, pampering will make them happy, but understanding can make them feel truly good.

Dong Tien – Team Sales”

From Saxa’s Growing Handbook – 06.03.16