Colleagues love each other, not an easy thing

 

Some days, we met colleagues even more than met… our lover.

An average of 8 hours per day, we talk, debate, hanging out with our colleagues even more than with lover. Left, we spend a few hours to go to dinner, breakfast, sitting with a smoothie for a few dozen minutes chattering or chat with our lover. Yet we still love our lover than colleagues. It would be lame if compared lover with colleagues. Because inherently, romance is always difficult to understand, and colleagues relationship may contain many gossip story. Loving another colleague is indeed not easy.

There is no exception at Saxa. All the thing about the staff behave coldly with each other, lack of cooperation, push the responsibility, personal escalating ... that is full of thwarted. In such a time, we are not sure that we calm enough to speak words of love to each other, think of each other as a close ally. The tutorials from best-selling products such as How to Win Friends and Influence People certainly will not make you satisfied because it is different from our fact in workplace.

But colleagues envy, jealous each other is a real obsession with the officer. We also fear. Fear that, just because of that junk that breaks away the long coherence. Therefore, we must learn how to overcome that fear. Like yesterday, in the class Learning to be mature, boss asked the new members:

- After a month of working here, did you get on well with everyone yet?

- I still feel shy even though everyone is very friendly to me. Do I need more time to get used to, to ... practice love?

- Wrong. Living longer together will make me understand each other better, closer and more intertwined by memories. But love, it doesn't take time, but it is an option. Choose love or hate, close or away. Depend on you.

What do choices mean? I thought that love is a strange feeling that the human heart can not control, how can we make it love someone. But emotion is something we can choose. Like, angry at customers when they are late or sympathy because they are busy, excited or disappointed with the next company trip, hate the gossip colleague or happy because she was the topic to gossip ... . Whatever emotion you feel first, let choose it, like choosing music to listen to.

Perhaps, it is not easy to pick feel-in-love with someone. But love is not just a choice, itself is a gift. Because given away the feelings that mean you are getting the comfort on your own soul. Probably it is a little bit disadvantaged if give that feeling for the wrong person. But because you chose it voluntarily, it will probably always be fun. Because it is an option, so you have absolute discretion. And if that decision is useful, you will always have present. Don't we always want to be happy?