Let inspire to people around you by the simplest things

Morning, I was writing, there was a colleague walked in. Every day, it was not in the room to hear him. But today, he was quiet, like he did not want people to pay attention to him. I did not notice that something happened, until a teammate found something: "A, today Tien had a new hair cut?"

New hair, in fact, almost is a nightmare for men. not to mention this time, it was cut by a wrong hair dresser, made him more unsatisfied. I felt his unhappy when people mention, but I also did not know how to say. If compliment, obviously it is too flattering. If decry, it was much less correct. People also feel that, so they chose to reBellan silent, not playing anymore.

A moment later, boss opened the door and walked in. He turned to greet her. She looked at him and laughed. He looked down, and said: "I do not know how to meet customer this afternoon, sister."

Boss let out a sentence, which made him changed his emotion: "I don’t think so. This is something you can humor with customer. Why so worry? "

He was from embarrassment, becomes much more cheerful. The initial inferiority, now also becomes confidence. So I called boss saying is a inspiring saying.

Inspiration, this is the thing that boss always encouraged us to do. But, frankly, I cannot imagine clearly, what should I do and I say to inspire. I had to google, typed the word "inspire", and that there were about 348,000 results. Read to want eyestrain, mostly things like: be strong, laugh, love ... All are good, are meaningful. But, if put in case I'm bored, whether they have enough spirit to revive me. The answer is probably not.

I think, sometimes inspiration is an art. And having done it or not, it depends on the person, rather than words and texts. I cannot speak the inspirational words to colleagues, because I am also going with that feeling: I feel dissatisfied because of appearance, so I have low self-confidence.

Who inspire others, in my opinion, must first be the one liberate his own stereotypes thought. Typically when we go to work:

Pressure work, rather than a headache, let's find a reason to assume that it is worthy.

Hard work, instead of giving up, we look for a reason to believe that you need to try harder.

And the failure, rather depressed, let's find a reason to believe that you need to continue to persevere.

Because I realized, we will not be able to inspire if we ourselves are still stuck in the emotions and negative thoughts. So, the most important thing when we inspire to others, is to learn to look wider and more different. Since after all, what feelings we find, the others will find the same.

P/s: this is fun selfie pictures of that co-workers, after being inspired by boss :)