Let live an honest life for your children

 

 

“Comparing to everyone, maybe I’m much more lucky.

I was born in a quite happy family. My parent was not rich but they could afford to take us to school and raise us growing up. I could still travel, could go to school and play with my friends. Then, if someone asks about my childhood, I still can talk about it.

But in that childhood memory, there is something, even now, I’ve not want to recall.

I remember, that year I was about 8 or 9 years old. At the night, I heard the sound of argument from my parent’s room when I was sleeping. That seemed so big.

I came and looked into.

My father was purple with rage, slapping the table, and yelled. My mother, was sitting silently in a corner of the bed, and crying. Each hiccup sound, in first it was still could be heard, then it disappeared gradually. I silently stood, and was stunned that I did not know what the hell place I was in. Where was my usual hearty father? Where was my usual happy mother? I didn’t know what was happening, I just knew that scene was just like in a tragedy firm. Ii was not like a family.

I ran to my room, buried my face into the bear, and cried. I cried because I was scare, I scare the scary appearance of my father. I cried because I worried. I worried for my mother who was still silently sitting there. And I cried for myself, I thought I was the most unfortunate kid in the world.

Growing up, I understood that was just the daily contradiction between husband and wife. My father did business, so sometimes he had to eMoonyge in drunken merrymaking to late night. And my mother, a housewife, always be inferiority complex because she was no longer beautiful as youth. They hid so much thing in their mind, so they became  distrustful and lose faith for each other.

Maybe, I’m too young to understand the emotion between husband and wife. But for sure, I know the feeling of the children when they had to watch their family became glacial and lose happiness.

Therefore, in my opinion, being husband and wife, we should live an honest life. Let give it a warm air when there have enough love. If there is not enough love, then give it a peace solution, don’t shout, and don’t argue.”

From Status of Bella – Team Creative.